Thursday, March 31, 2016

New Year, New Cousins and Special Guest Stars

We spent a quiet New Years Eve 2015 at home with take out Asian food (yes, just general Asian food, thats how they egg roll in the boondocks).  But the real party happened a few days later in Chicago when Alison, Dylan and new niece Alex flew in from Seattle and Martha, Linda and Kelly arrived from Columbus and Washington DC.  Gracie and Fisher can not get enough of their cousins or their aunts and were shall we say very excited all weekend?  Pretty sure Martha, Linda and Kelly left feeling they really needed a vacation from the vacation.  Trips to the Shedd Aquarium, a trampoline jump place, Dunkin Donuts- what could be better?  Oh yes, Lou Malnatis Deep Dish pizza.  Don't worry, that happened too.

**Warning Photo Overload**

Dylan & Adam admire the coral reef

Linda, Kelly & Martha enjoying the shark exhibit
Dad & I take a selfie on the Shedd front steps before hopping in an Uber.  In case you doubted that we were cool.

Alex and Graham, 2.5weeks apart

Graham looks like he could eat here, he is actually a small guy.  Alex is just smaller.

Graham is so happy his cousin is here.

Ready to take over the world, as you can tell by their dominating fist pumps.

selfie with the new babies

Papa and his minions

How happy am I that the paci is no longer in our life?  So happy.   As happy as Fisher when he is with his cousin Kelly.

I put Graham in Buckeye colors to be nice to Aunt Linda, she is pretty good to us.  It was only a small sacrifice.

Two favorites:  Martha & grahamsy

Papa and his favorite guys under 5

The big kids and Grandparents, side note we take too many photos on this couch.

Dylan thinks Papa knows a lot.

Dylan likes pink.  Alison likes Dunkin Donuts.  Can you tell?  Ed note: Alison like the coffee NOT the donuts.

Two blue eyed babes

The gang.  At one of the play places a woman asked if Gracie and Dylan were twins.  They share a similar coloring.  But Dylan is a trained, professional model with published digital work.

Maybe my best child portrait ever.  Too bad not my children.  See he really is a model.

Cousins.  Alex wondering if this family thing is a good idea.

Trouble.


P.S In other news, Linda has officially retired.  Congrats Aunt Linda!  You are a role model for professional (and non professional) women everywhere.  Seriously she is kind of a big deal, she even has a Wikipedia page.  We admire your achievements, but really just love you for you.  As she says, "People first, things second".  She really lives by this.  No matter how busy, she always makes time for her family and shows up.  Looking forward to sharing more time with you now that you are officially off the clock.

What Happens When Dad Babysits

no explanation needed

Monday, March 21, 2016

She cracks me up

Crazy hair she refused to let me brush  ✅
Crazy outfit for 30 degrees she insisted on wearing✅
Crazy room cleaned who knows when ✅
Crazy dog purse only a two year old could love ✅
Crazy, determined, focused, sweet Gracie bear✅



Lemons from Lemonade

Me:  Fisher you seem to be having a rough couple of days is everything all right?

Fisher:  (through heavy tears). It's just, it's just that you screw everything up!

Truth.

I do screw up.  There was a forgotten snack for the preschool snack bucket, a trip to Culvers that didn't include ice cream, a promised park expedition that never materialized due to the cold weather.  Small things that were big things to my little man with a small understanding of the hundreds of decisions I make as a parent each day.  Some successful, some super embarrassing (here's looking at you snack bucket).

I left the bucket in my trunk over the weekend and just completely forgot come Monday morning.  Never mind that Ashley and I spent our Saturday making a giant teacher appreciation board.  That Seuss is five feet tall!  When it comes to preschool currency it's rice popcorn and cheese sticks that count.


To make up for the snack incident I let him pick out a cookie recipe to bake for his friends at school the next day.  They required a few ingredients that we didn't have so I took all three kids to the grocery store and you know what?  It wasn't terrible.  I now have minimal confidence that I can handle the three children in a public shopping scenario.  Still not ideal but manageable.  The cookies were delicious too (almond glaze?  Yes please!).


To celebrate what I viewed as a parenting win (grocery store + cookies) and three clean kids fresh from the bath tub, I took a few photos.   We had a good time trying to pose Graham and they all generally cooperated for my iPhone camera.  A real Lardo miracle.  As I looked over the photos on my phone I was reminded that sometimes real life is as good as the pictures.  If only for a few snap shots.   Snack bucket fail forgotten.







Tuesday, March 15, 2016

Big Girl

Gracie is very proud of herself these days, she is completely potty trained, threw out all her pacifiers and only tries to injure her brother a couple of times a day. Progress.  I'm going to miss her saying Paa-see-fy-er, it was one of her cutest words, random scratches on Graham's head?  Not so much.  Needless to say she isn't sleeping very well with all the change.  I opened her door tonight and had a slight moment of panic when she wasn't in her bed, thankfully I didn't have to look too far.  For her brother either.  


There are two kids in that pic in our bed if you couldn't tell.  I couldn't risk turning on the light for the photo.

As a substitute for her pacifier she has taken to sleeping with an odd array of things (Fisher included).  The stuffed animals I get, but postcards?  My mom sends the kids lots of postcards and we keep them in a box she gave Gracie on her dresser.   Every night I find her chair moved in front of her dresser and the postcards mysteriously moved to her bed.   They must be cozy and comforting in a way a cardboard card from grandma only can be.  Way better than a pacifier.


There are about 30 cards under her.  Just so we are on the same page.

Monday, March 7, 2016

Lately

Coming in Hot

Fisher and I enjoyed quality time on the slopes this winter.  Ok we went skiing 4 times, but those four times were really fun.  For both of us . . . I think.  Fisher approaches life with an admirable enthusiasm, he is brave and generally very "happy go lucky".  This makes teaching him something new relatively stress free.  He doesn't take things too seriously, care if he falls or shed many tears.  Mostly he wants to go fast and go on the chair lift.  Thus far I have regulated him to magic carpet and tow rope only.   Here he is coming in hot.  Stopping and turning coming next season.



To continue our ski adventures we took a trip up north to visit Boyne with the Thorntons and Schaals.  This group of kids has a lot of fun together.  Resident camp counsellors Levi and Isaac help entertain the little ones so the adults can sometimes hold an uninterrupted conversation.  We have a lot of fun together too.  Levi also helps with hats.  And I wondered why Gracie talks about him so much.  He is always helping her.


The weather was beautiful and we enjoyed apres ski at the base of the mountain.  These ski bums worked hard and earned their chocolate milk and the adults earned their free shots of beer from the dos Equis girls.  Taking 6 kids and an infant to the slopes is a lot of work.  


My friend Laura was nice enough to help Nick with Gracie and Graham while I took a few runs and Fisher was at ski camp. He was happy with his new friend.


Ski camp started at 9:45, at 9:30 I told Nick I had to leave or my dream of taking a few runs was never going to happen.  I set off to make all my northern Michigan powder fantasies come true.  An hour later he called- I could hear Graham hysterically crying in the background.  He needed to be fed. I dutifully made my way over to where Nick was watching ski school.  He asked how my skiing was going. I hadn't even been up the mountain.  The process of buying a lift ticket, and renting a helmet had eaten up most my free ski time.  Taking a nursing infant on a ski trip may have been a bit aggressive, but worth it.  Even if I only skied for about a half hour. 


We stayed on property at Boyne (in one room- never again), where there is also a waterpark.  Sunday we skied in the morning, swam in the afternoon then visited Bob and Lee at Walloon for dinner.  The kids were exhausted from the big day and a tad grumpy.  However with 6 children I figured Bob and Lee understood.  After eating all of Lee's delicious chicken they pepped up enough for some after dinner conversation and a photo. 



Not great photos but you get the idea.  In a funny moment I have been waiting patiently for Graham to flip from back to stomach.  He has been 95% there for weeks. I discussed this with Bob and Lee and got up to refill my drink.  10 seconds after I turned my back Graham completed his flip for the first time with Bob as witness.  A parent can spend 98% of her time with a kid and still miss the milestone moments.  Fisher took his first steps on the same rug(again without his mom to witness).  I'm beginning to think their living room is the true northern Michigan magic carpet.  They should start charging babies Boyne lift ticket prices to play on it- kids will be flipping, crawling, walking and going on chair lifts in no time. No parental supervision necessary.


Thursday, March 3, 2016

Christmas 2015

This is the first Christmas I have put on the blog in the last few years.  There are so many pictures it is always overwhelming to go through them all.  But I promised myself that this year would be different.   So here it is.

We can't talk about Christmas 2015 without mentioning the preschool parties.  Gracie has watched the below videos no less than 500 times each.  She is obsessed.  She is very much the little performer.





Porter and Fisher at their party

Christmas Grahamsy


Love my little guys


Gracie takes a swing post her Christmas party

bored? take selfies

Christmas Eve in Chicago.  Carols & Cocktails with some old friends

This tree was huge, this photo doesn't do it justice.  Good job mom and dad!

Mom and Graham

There is a trend of these four people being in photos without one person who doesn't cooperate

Surf & Turf!  These lobsters were delicious.  I have come to conclusion when eating lobster in the midwest the source of the lobster makes or breaks the meal.  



Hanging Christmas morning in our Christmas jams


Gracie basically wore this sparkle Santa hat all season long







Help me! Help me!  She is attacking me.  Again.



The Carreras family visited from California, Graham liked Nick's hat

Kids of some of my favorite people.  From left to right, Charlie & Jack Schreiber, Charlie Carreras, Gracie, Fisher, Davis Gillig, Sloane McCutcheon and Graham

My favorite high school peeps Jenny, Alexis, Katie, Donielle

The favorite peeps and their families, representing, Chicago, Michigan, California and South Carolina

Graham in the Christmas bucket.  I have the same photo of Fisher and Gracie.